Diebert van Rhijn wrote:
The category 'illness' only arises when it becomes a trouble. But a trouble for whom?
But a trouble for whom?
In this case (diagnosis), the trouble would be for the children, spouse, parents, friends and acquaintances of the sufferer. And potential trouble for people who unwittingly believe someone who suffers from the disorder is embracing the symptoms exhibited not because of a valid mental disorder, but for an
exalted purpose. It's rather troublesome to be attached to someone who is (as stated in as many words at wikipedia) emotionally cold, has a limited capacity to show either negative
OR positive emotion toward others, no desire to form relationships, takes pleasure in few (if any) activities, is indifferent to social norms, preoccupied with themselves and their own fantasies, and lack sexual desires.
Lack of emotion is an impossibility to someone who does not suffer from such a disorder. Very, very few things we do in our every day lives are not motivated by some emotion. To make lack of emotion a
goal is akin to attempting to levitate through meditation. The outcome is pretty obvious, the reasoning behind it is also. Choosing to separate ones self from others for the purpose of achieving some higher conscious perception is one thing, a complete inability to relate to others on a basis which does not interfere with one's own ego (read:
preoccupation with themselves) is another mule. There is a
huge difference between A: spiritual introspection that requires brief periods of solitude and B: an inability to relate to others due to mental illness. One can attempt to separate themselves from others (in an emotional sense) for more obvious reasons; like maybe they have been burned one time too many in a personal relationship (be it family, friend or lover). Normally, unless there are issues involved that may require outside counseling, this passes.
The most disturbing of the symptoms (to me at least) is the limited capacity to show either negative
or positive emotion toward others. A lot of people would love to be able to dismiss all negative emotion. However, would they choose to do so at the expense of dismissing all positive emotion as well? Those who suffer from this disorder could care less... nor more! One would logically assume that if one were to make his/her goal one of pure compassion, being able to actually experience compassion would be a prerequisite.
And could someone please show me where the definition of compassion is given that says it is
not an emotion? Kevin's own definition includes emotion. Kevin said:
Agape is really an understanding - an understanding of all things - and is hence identical to Wisdom and Compassion.
First off, one would have to have the desire (an emotion) to obtain an understanding of
all things to begin with. If we look at the
established definition of agape, it is a selfless love, a spiritual love. Who here can deny love is an emotion, selfless or otherwise? How can one have understanding without agape? Wisdom without understanding? Compassion without wisdom?
Any of the above without emotion?
Just for the record: Does Kevin believe compassion
is not a human emotion? What is Kevin's definition of compassion and wisdom?
Also, can someone explain the need some people have here to capitalize words like
joy, sorrow, reality and
wisdom? Does this not in some way give greater import to these words? And by doing so, does that not go against the idea that nothing is more important than anything else; i.e. dismissing
"equal towards literally all things"?