David's non-chalant emotional indifference when he spoke about his mother's condition and his thoughts on euthanasia was both unsettingly and inspiring.David Quinn wrote:
I'm actually living with my parents at the present time as my mother has dementia and my father needs help in looking after her. So in a sense, things have come full circle.
(and then later.....)
There's a lot to be said for euthanasia and the enforced killing of old people. My mother's mind is just about gone, her life is all but non-existent, and yet she is still consuming resources and requiring other people to look after her. Perhaps a system in which people who reach 60 or 70 have to show that they are enlightened and wise, or else be put to death, should be put in place. It would diminish the drag on the world's resources and might even encourage people to seek wisdom.
It provoked me to think about how I'm going to handle my parents death.
Obviously my aunts, uncles and the friends of my parents are going to expect a funeral, and they would feel guilty if they didnt go.
But I don't think I'll be particpating in any more funerals.
And I think I shall be looked upon as a devil for it. It is quite disturbing and amusing.
I already wrote up my will and my demands are that no funeral service be held and that my body is to be donated to science. (I've already filled out the papers and droped them off at the university)
Has anyone else thought about this?
PS: And David! What about you? Is your father going to be participating in your mothers funeral? And is he expecting you to attend? Are you going to attend? Will he be upset if you dont?