Are you saying that teachers and parents are purposely keeping this information – the “why†– from their students and children? If you are, why would they need to do that?
They are not feeling 'fear' and 'emotions' on purpose, and it is fear and emotion that are in control. You could say that they are purposely allowing fear/emotion to continue being the master. But then you could argue that they don't even know that emotion is the master. I would say that they don't even know that they don't know. They are not aware that they are not aware - perhaps they become aware of their own ignorance in brief moments - of which they recoil away in fear (and of course they remain unaware of that very fear)
That is why socrates was considered the wisest man during his time, because he was one of the few people who was aware of his own ignorance. You could say that this is because socrates had character, but then again, you could attribute his child-like strength to a lack of character, or maybe to a good character.
As with the mediocre person, that persons (bad) character is a defense against truth.
I'm guessing that being aware of ones own ignorance is (at least at first) painful or uncomfortable for people.
If it wasnt then I would think that everyone would be wise.
If you were to talk with one of these profesors or to a parent and if you were to try taking the conversation into a quite heavy and truthful place - - you would find the parent or teacher quite stricken with discomfort. If they managed to stay with you, you would find that they were quite drained by the conversation.
So, when people are mediocre, I think it is caused by wishful thinking. They hope that what they know is good enough.
People hope that they are more important and knowlegable than they really are. So, vanity has alot to do with it to....
One also tends to masochistically hope that their friends and collegues are more important, strong and knowledgable than they really are.
In my experience with friendship, I find it is a strange mixture between sadism and masochism. Your friend simultaneously wants to feel protected by your strength AND occasionally cut you down to a size of his liking. So he is simultaneioulsy over-estimating and under-estimating you. He is irrational.
If he sees you suffering or weak, instead of sympathy(not saying he should feel sympathy), he actually feels revulsion, fear, frusteration, insecurity, disdain......
You see, you were your friends asset (at least in his eyes). You are his means of attaining success. And so you better put on a smile and get back to work.
And so we all like to play pretend, otherwise, we would have no friends.
Each person is unwittingly dishonest, because unconsciously they know the suffering that they are in for if they wake up and act intelligently.
Sue: Or do you think it is more a case that they don’t know the “why†of anything much themselves. This sounds more likely, and would mean that they are as ignorant and gullible as their students and children. Yes?
Exactly. In my original post I said:
If they were concerned with the rationality of the function, rather than merely authoratively imposing a structure upon the minds of students and offspring (of which are regarded as the means to greater financial and status gain), then the teachers and parents would see themselves as the children and students that they truly are, and would hence learn a great deal from the children.
They are not concerned with the rationality of the function due to either a lack of capacity or a fear of the consequences.
Both this lack of capacity and fear are involuntary.
So, nobody is doing anything on purpose.
Somethings and people are just involuntarily bad, while others are better.
Some bad people like myself are lucky (seems strange to call it luck, it often feels like a curse) enough to have the strength to see myown badness and thus become better.
I may not have what it takes to live unconditionally free and supremely wise, but I will at least do my best to more thouroughly delineate the path for those to come.