It is not pomposity, preposterous pride, religious dogmatism, condescending heroism or anything of the sort. It's my experience that prompts me to post very clear and emphatic warnings about the extreme demands of the path to enlightenment. It saves lots of unnecessary suffering and self-deceit. Most people simply aren't cut out for it. That's just how it is. To pretend otherwise is a grave disservice to them, as well as being false. What would be the point of entertaining you with the illusion of a nice wilderness jaunt among friends, only to find out, after all, that you must develop your own unique understanding without the thought-scaffoldings created by others --- since at that point, bereft of the entertainment, camraderie, and fun times, you'd quickly tire of it all, and just give up? What a waste of everyone's time.
No, far better that I be up front and point out the prerequisites, intellectual and psychological. Wisdom is an all-or-nothing endeavour, because it requires sacrifice of every false nook and cranny in one's reasoning. If one doesn't have that all-out passion for truth, but, instead be content to skip a couple of corners and believe you'll get there anyway, there's simply no way you'll taste the waters of that illimitable ocean for yourself. This is why I treat women with the justice they deserve. It pinches off a lot of bad habits right in the bud.
No, it is a logical truth about the nature of Reality. It isn't a dualistic something, objective or subjective.Orenholt wrote:KJ: That there is no objective reality is about dismantling attachment to the view that the world of the senses is really "out there" beyond consciousness, instead of right here, where it has appeared.
O: Aren't you only saying that because it's impossible to travel beyond one's own consciousness?
Don't waste your efforts. It is not me you have to convince of your credentials. What you write today ought to be leaps and bound in advance of your thoughts seven years ago, if you're worth listening to. Yet you have already admitted you don't understand what is being said to you today. It's you who need to be putting your brains to work.If you want I can link you to old posts I made on a different forum in 2006 that state some of my philosophical musings. But frankly your pomposity is turning me off.
But why should you? What possible motivation could you possibly have for wanting to understand something that has no possible social or emotional advantages? It won't make your life easier. You won't get any respect or interest from your acquaintances or peers. You won't be a leader of a radical new movement. It won't earn you any money. It won't bring you any lasting emotional-romantic relationships. I find it hard to think what possible interest you could have in wanting to pay any attention to what is being said to you. But perhaps that's why you can't cross the barrier and understand.
The intellectual side isn't difficult, but it takes a commitment to wanting to be perfectly rational first. To seek ultimate truths. That's why women haven't got the right stuff. They don't want to make that effort of commitment. Why would they? The world is perfectly set up for their happiness, well-being and comfort just as it is. For a woman to abandon willingly this paradise of mental fog, for nothing but truth, is simply not the way their emotions will have it. As soon as things get difficult, they'd rather scream and rant at how difficult things are, and give up wallowing in their emotional same-old, same-old "paradise".
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